I don't know about you, but I find the holidays kind of depressing. I know that everyone around me is so excited about what is going on with them and their families, but for me, I get down.
When I was a kid, I loved the holidays. Sometimes I wonder why. As I got older, there always seemed to be some kind of family argument, which it seems my dad was behind. But when I was younger, I understand why. I would get presents, which at that time would consist of Star Wars figures and such.
My favorite Christmas memory is around second grade, or at least around that time. My grandfather, a miserable person at times to be around, was kept at hospital (I think mental) so it was just my grandma, mom, brother, and me. It was a great night, as we open gifts and celebrate on Christmas Eve night. I got a Hoth play set and lots of figures. My brother and myself had a great time.
I have fond memories of Christmas on the farm, and one while living in town in Avilla. Then the memories seem to run together. As I got older, it was always nice to be with family, but for whatever reason, I can't seem to keep them apart like those from my childhood.
After my grandma died, Christmas has been tougher. The year she died, we did our best to make things as pleasant as possible. We had two additions to the family, Sable and Terra, two beautiful black cats. I remember going to Florida on vacation after Christmas was over and had the best time that we could under the circumstance. We had some good ones, and tough ones after that. The bad one was the year of the ice storm. We finally got our power back on Christmas Eve, which was a great gift. It was the last one in Indiana. The past few have been in Florida, which are interesting.
The good thing about Florida is that when the holidays are over, you don't get the post holiday blues. In Indiana, it is cold and gray, and tough to keep a happy face. I suffer from depression in January and February in Indiana. I don't remember having that issue when I lived in Florida, since you could always go and visit mother ocean. Here, you go to bed and drink as much as possible.
I hope to one day have a family of my own to share the holidays with, to watch my child or children open gifts with anticipation on Christmas Eve night. I am a Christmas Eve person, the idea of getting up early in the morning for anything is not for me. I look forward to that one of these days.
I also look forward to getting past the post holiday blues.
When I was a kid, I loved the holidays. Sometimes I wonder why. As I got older, there always seemed to be some kind of family argument, which it seems my dad was behind. But when I was younger, I understand why. I would get presents, which at that time would consist of Star Wars figures and such.
My favorite Christmas memory is around second grade, or at least around that time. My grandfather, a miserable person at times to be around, was kept at hospital (I think mental) so it was just my grandma, mom, brother, and me. It was a great night, as we open gifts and celebrate on Christmas Eve night. I got a Hoth play set and lots of figures. My brother and myself had a great time.
I have fond memories of Christmas on the farm, and one while living in town in Avilla. Then the memories seem to run together. As I got older, it was always nice to be with family, but for whatever reason, I can't seem to keep them apart like those from my childhood.
After my grandma died, Christmas has been tougher. The year she died, we did our best to make things as pleasant as possible. We had two additions to the family, Sable and Terra, two beautiful black cats. I remember going to Florida on vacation after Christmas was over and had the best time that we could under the circumstance. We had some good ones, and tough ones after that. The bad one was the year of the ice storm. We finally got our power back on Christmas Eve, which was a great gift. It was the last one in Indiana. The past few have been in Florida, which are interesting.
The good thing about Florida is that when the holidays are over, you don't get the post holiday blues. In Indiana, it is cold and gray, and tough to keep a happy face. I suffer from depression in January and February in Indiana. I don't remember having that issue when I lived in Florida, since you could always go and visit mother ocean. Here, you go to bed and drink as much as possible.
I hope to one day have a family of my own to share the holidays with, to watch my child or children open gifts with anticipation on Christmas Eve night. I am a Christmas Eve person, the idea of getting up early in the morning for anything is not for me. I look forward to that one of these days.
I also look forward to getting past the post holiday blues.